In 3 weeks, I lost Ucu and Nyayi... Nyayi is my grandma and Ucu is her youngest daughter from my father side. They both live in Senai, close to my parents house in Jb, and of course us in Skudai. Memang boleh kata every week kami berjumpa. Ucu died cause of cancer and Nyayi die cause of hearthace of losing her daughter..we think..who knows..
Ucu diagnoses her breast cancer 31/2 years ago..when aqil was born in August 2007. She then had a mastectomy. A year ago the cancer was detected in her brain. Since having brain cancer, she was not really herself. Up to early this year she was ok. She can walk (slowly), talk, cook, smyg, and can still reconize some people. But then she worsen, cannot see or hear, then all the sudden cannot walk, talk, eat,...and on 13 July, at 1.45am, she passed away. We knew her time was coming, but when it came, it still hurt, shock, sad,...
After that nyayi stay with abah (she stayed with Ucu before-Ucu jaga dia, but in the end, dia jaga Ucu). They said she was different. Suka termenung, kurang cakap, meracau then tiba-tiba kena semput. The Dr said her heart was weak. Some people said she might kena 'badi mayat'. On 1 Ramadhan/1 Ogos, subuh time, my dad gave her the ventilator pump to used, left her alone to go to surau, afterward came home to see she not there anymore...
So, did her behaviour changed because she was so sad? or was it because she knew her time is coming soon.. I've read, some people, during the last days, malaikat Izrail muncul depan kita, that why ada kata perangai 'buang tebiat'. I guess we will never know, until our time has come...
Ucu diagnoses her breast cancer 31/2 years ago..when aqil was born in August 2007. She then had a mastectomy. A year ago the cancer was detected in her brain. Since having brain cancer, she was not really herself. Up to early this year she was ok. She can walk (slowly), talk, cook, smyg, and can still reconize some people. But then she worsen, cannot see or hear, then all the sudden cannot walk, talk, eat,...and on 13 July, at 1.45am, she passed away. We knew her time was coming, but when it came, it still hurt, shock, sad,...
After that nyayi stay with abah (she stayed with Ucu before-Ucu jaga dia, but in the end, dia jaga Ucu). They said she was different. Suka termenung, kurang cakap, meracau then tiba-tiba kena semput. The Dr said her heart was weak. Some people said she might kena 'badi mayat'. On 1 Ramadhan/1 Ogos, subuh time, my dad gave her the ventilator pump to used, left her alone to go to surau, afterward came home to see she not there anymore...
So, did her behaviour changed because she was so sad? or was it because she knew her time is coming soon.. I've read, some people, during the last days, malaikat Izrail muncul depan kita, that why ada kata perangai 'buang tebiat'. I guess we will never know, until our time has come...
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