Mohamad Wafi bin Mohd Nihra Haruzuan

Alhamdullilah, putera kedua selamat dilahirkan pada 25 Januari 2011 (Tuesday), jam 4.12pm di North Shore hospital, NZ. Baby yang tidak dirancang, dan melalui pelbagai emosi hormon yg tidak stabil was one week late ( due date was 17 Jan ). Tapi rancangan ALLAH adalah yg terbaik.. my parents arrived on Monday, 24 Jan, the next day I delivered.

On Saturday night, ada 'bloody show'. Then on Sunday, ada lagi, but no contraction. Wasn't sure if it was a 'bloody show' 'cause dishcarge bercampur dgn darah.  I look up on the internet, that 'bloody show' was either pure blood or discharge with a slight blood. On Monday baru ada contraction, but during the day was like once in a while. That night was about every 15 minit, but I managed to have a good sleep until subuh, then it was every 5 minit. At 8 am, went to the hospital, but had to wait until 10 am baru masuk bilik delivery.

A midwife temankan, then rupa2nya dia yg akan menyambut baby tu!! Terperanjat juga, ingat ada lagi org lain yg akan bantu. Dulu masa Aqil, bersalin di HSA, Jb, punyalah penuh bilik delivery, dgn nurse pelatih, nurse bidan-3,4 orang, then dr pelatih!! Memang hilang malulah masa tu sbb sakit sangat, tapi bagusnya, sbb riuh mulut dia org suruh push, rasa distracted juga dari sakit kita, compare dekat sini, just ada midwife tu sorg and my hubby yg tak terkata nak bagi semangat and juga ada dr pelatih sorg. But the midwife was very calm. Dari awal sampai bersalin, dia punya tone sama shj- very encouraging!! " yes you can do it!!! "

Anyway, around 2pm, the 5 min contraction makin sakit sangat. The midwife offer using gas untuk kurangkan sakit. But actually tak kurang pun, tapi kita concentrate on tarikan nafas, rasa kurang sikitlah. Half hour later, midwife check dah 7-8cm, but still ada membran sikit kat tepi ( air ketuban pun tak pecah lagi ). Here in NZ, they want you to deliver normally. Every process must be naturally!! So when I asked them to tarik membran keluar, they 'NOO, we have to wait'.  Punyalah seksa nak tunggu membran akhir tu pecah, sampai kena menonggeng kat katil nak paksa pecah sendiri!!

When finally dah 10cm, kena teran..ni yg paling lemah. Ku tak pandai nak meneran keluar!! Banyak kali meneran, tapi tak cukup kuat for the baby to keluar. Akhirnya, midwife panggil ketua dia, dengan kata-kata ' If we have to call the Dr, it will hurt more '. At that time memang dah give up nak meneran, ' No, I can't do it, make it come out, I don't want to push anymore!! ' Teruk betul perangai!! Tak sukalah rasa nak meneran...

Anyway, the last push, they pecahkan ketuban, amik ko - habis semua kena percikan. Then I push again, finally at 4.12pm keluar babynya...Rasa mcm terpelanting keluar baby!! Sebab bila angkat kepala tengok, baby was face down on the bed, with no one pegang. Tapi alhamdullillah, baby terus menangis.. then the midwife check my damage but she had to called the Dr. Sedih-sedih-sedih, walaupun they did not do any cut, tapi my cut was 3rd degree again!! I had to go to the operation room, where they numb me half body dgn suntikan di tulang belakang. The Dr said the cut was at the same place. Pelik-pelik-pelik..dah 3 tahun I had the cut, yg dah pulih, but then just from pushing ( kuat sangat atau my butt was moving around) I have the same cut!!

Wafi was 3.295kg, but now, at 25 days dah 3.8kg.

Hari ke-2

Wafi dan gaun hospital

Tok Wan dan dua cucunya

Dagu terbelah macam ayahnya

Operasi mencukur rambut hari ke-7

Rambut lebat, kena guna pemotong rambut

Setelah 3 hari mencukur rambut, akhirnya botak Wafi

Ayah dah ada 2 geng, bila mama nak dapat geng ni??

Wafi hari ke 28